What Not To Do!
A big part of the recall problem is that many owners inadvertently train their dogs to NOT come when called. First, they ask their dog to come rarely and often at inopportune times, for example when their dog is sniffing, or playing with other dogs. When their dog does return to their owner, they’re put on leash and taken home. Understandably, these dogs quickly learn that coming when called usually means the end of Good Times.
As these dogs get more and more reluctant about returning to their owners, their recalls get worse and worse, which only makes the owners more frustrated. When the owner finally does catch their dog, they shout at them and drag them home in a huff. This only teaches the dog to dislike returning to their owner even more.
You can avoid this scenario by frequently calling your dog in the park and when they come, give them a piece of kibble, a scratch behind the ears, a kiss or a cuddle and then say, “Go Play”. Your dog will learn that coming when called is not a bad thing, it’s a good thing.
No matter how long it takes for your dog to come when called, do not be mean to them when they do arrive. If you punish, your dog will take even longer to come the next time. Always say, “Thank you” even if it’s not very enthusiastic, and then, take a quick step backwards and call your dog again. Because your dog is close and no longer distracted, it will likely Come and Sit following a single Request and so, now, you can praise and reward your dog enthusiastically.
Most people view reliable recalls as a sign of compliance. And they are. But more important, recalls, heeling and stays are all signs of confidence and affection — your dog wants to approach and stay close to you. Always be grateful when your dog comes when called and sticks around and truly relish the moment. Look into your dog’s eyes and say “Thank you” like you really mean it. Remember, one day, you may not have this dog to call. As my Dad often says, “Those that we grieve tomorrow are alive and well today.”
Enjoy your dog today!